Do you feel like you can’t do anything right these days?
Is your husband becoming increasingly annoyed and irritated with you over insignificant or minor things?
If that’s true:
You feel like you are walking on egg shells when you’re around him, and finally you want to avoid seeing him all…Continue
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“Treat a man as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be, and he will become what he should be.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Communication in marriage is the doorway to mutual understanding. Without it, even the most loving couples will end up apart.
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That’s how I felt when I found out my husband had an affair.
Sure, at first I wasn’t. The first feelings were rage, resentment, disgust, shock, confusion, numbness and helplessness.
But bottom line, when I looked deep down – I was terrified.
Terrified of losing my family, of facing the unknown, of…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on May 21, 2014 at 10:25am — No Comments
“O.k. Yes. I had an affair with her”.
My husband couldn’t look in my eyes when he finally admitted his 6-month affair with his co-worker.
I went completely silent for about 10 long seconds.
I wouldn’t exaggerate if I said that about 50 questions went through my mind, along with the shock, the rage, the humiliation and…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on April 27, 2014 at 10:46am — No Comments
“I love you but I’m not in love with you”.
I’ll bet that’s what your husband said right before he left you for another woman.
When a spouse says they no longer love you, that doesn’t always mean the love is dead. It may simply mean that his love has been covered up by anger, frustration, resentment or other emotions.
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“Pack his things and throw them out the window or just burn them in the backyard?
Kill him with my bare hands or use a baseball bat?”
I’ll bet these are the first thoughts of any woman who just found out her spouse has been or still is cheating on her.
Nothing abnormal about that.
Than comes the real shock. The…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on January 2, 2014 at 10:31am — No Comments
It’s very true: Every marriage has it ups and downs.
But not all downs are part of the “norm”. Repeated periods of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, anger, frustration, hurt and disappointment, are unmistakable signs of a marriage in serious trouble.
If you are worried that your husband is looking for a way out, you need to be aware of some the…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on September 24, 2013 at 12:30am — No Comments
“When my wife finally admitted that she has cheated on me I was so shocked that for a few long minutes I couldn’t even speak.”
My husband’s best friend was sitting on out couch, looking like he’s been crushed by a bulldozer. He continued:
“A few days ago I went to our laptop to check my mail and I saw that she left hers open. I noticed a lot of email from one of her co-workers (whom I’ve met a few times before), which made me instantly suspicious.”…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on July 31, 2013 at 1:25am — No Comments
Only those of who have experienced living with an emotionally unavailable man can understand the pain of not being able to get close to the one you love.
It seems that no matter what you do, he finds a way to create the distance. Excuses, other activities, anger, criticism, anything that will keep you away from him emotionally.
It’s hard to describe how rejected, unimportant, depressed and alone it can make you feel.…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on June 29, 2013 at 11:26am — No Comments
Despite the money, time and emotional effort you’ve invested in marriage counseling, it doesn’t seem to work. It feels like the last hope of saving your marriage is being shattered and you are stuck in a dead end street.
If marriage counseling doesn’t work for you, or even made things worse in your relationship, you are far from being…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on January 30, 2013 at 10:30pm — No Comments
At some point, almost every woman in a long-term relationship finds herself looking for the adoring man who used to be her best friend. The sharing and caring man who really SAW the amazing woman he has right in front of him and treated her like a princess.
Do you remember this man? Do you wonder where did he go? And who is this cold, distant, uninterested and uncaring creature that took his place?
You may think I am…Continue
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You don’t have proof yet, but you suspect your husband is cheating on you. What a world of worry and pain you must be living in.
Is it the young woman at work that “he’s just friends” with? Or the old flame that he’s been chatting with on Facebook? Has he become distant, doesn’t communicate, doesn’t touch you or look you in the eyes? Does it just feel that he’s not interested in you anymore?
The truth is that there are…
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The holiday season and especially Christmas, offers a great opportunity for strengthening your marriage, without “making it an issue”. It’s a time when you both work less, get to see each other more and exchange gifts which can help you express your feelings without saying a single word.
Christmas is your chance to re-set and restart your marriage, making it better than it ever was. This year, instead of buying him that new watch or another…
Added by Lisa Penn on December 16, 2012 at 11:20am — No Comments
The cold hard truth is this: The most loving and adoring couple will NOT survive for long without learning the art of communication. Communication problems in marriage are exactly like cancer. Left untreated, they WILL eventually grow and kill your relationship.
Communication problems in marriage are…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on October 28, 2012 at 1:00am — No Comments
“I can’t believe this is happening to me”, my friend Rachel thought while sitting on the sofa with her husband John. Her heart was pounding and her face was turning pale as she heard him saying “I want a divorce.”
She was unable to speak. Her head was spinning and was too overwhelmed to cry. She just sat there listening to him telling her – “I just can’t go on like this anymore. Our marriage is over.”
He had already gone to work when she was able to speak…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on September 2, 2012 at 1:47am — No Comments
Not for a split second did you ever imagine that some day you will wake up next to a husband that hates you. YOUR husband? Who used to be so in love with you? That showered you with love and admiration? That used to be your best friend?
Cut to a few years later, and it’s like you don’t even know who this guy is. Maybe he is just cold, distant and…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on September 2, 2012 at 1:30am — No Comments
Nothing can make you feel more invisible and lonely than being taken for granted. You do everything you possibly can to make your husband happy, but your hard work and efforts are left unnoticed and unappreciated.
“My husband doesn’t appreciate me“, you cry inside as you wash his laundry, make his favorite meals, iron his…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on September 2, 2012 at 1:30am — No Comments
Your world is crumbling down under your feet. You have recently found out that your husband is cheating, or has cheated in the past and now you are this non-functioning mess of rage, shock, sadness, low self esteem and despair.
If that’s not enough, when your husband cheats – It makes you feel lonelier than you have ever felt before.…Continue
Added by Lisa Penn on August 22, 2012 at 1:24am — No Comments
“A crazy cocktail of denial, anger, grief and complete loss of self esteem.” This is how I felt when I discovered my husband had an affair with his (not attractive) co-worker. I immediately wanted to know EVERYTHING about his infidelity.
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