How to Stop the Yelling
You: Crying. “I hate you! You’re so mean to me!”
Him: Yelling. “You’re nothing but a nag! All you ever do is bitch!”
Oh dear. Not good. Fighting below the belt – name calling and vicious accusations. Gonna get ugly if you keep this up.
Back to the drawing board you go . . . learning to talk about what’s bothering you before it gets so heated you can’t think straight, taking a couples class on conflict-management together, agreeing on time-outs, etc.
No more yelling, no more hurtful “I wish I hadn’t said that” moments. . .
What a relief!
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Episode 98: Get Your Marriage Out of the Fight Club
Dr. Noelle Nelson discusses how anger can inhibit your problem solving skills that keep you and your spouse fighting. Also, be sure to find out who won the Toad to Prince contest visit www.toadtoprince.com. For more go to www.hitchedmag.com© 2009 Created by hitched
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