You: Crying. “I hate you! You’re so mean to me!”
Him: Yelling. “You’re nothing but a nag! All you ever do is bitch!”
Oh dear. Not good. Fighting below the belt – name calling and vicious accusations. Gonna get ugly if you keep this up.
Back to the drawing board you go . . . learning to talk about what’s bothering you before it gets so heated you can’t think straight, taking a couples class on conflict-management together, agreeing on time-outs, etc.
No more yelling, no more hurtful “I wish I hadn’t said that” moments. . .
What a relief!
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