How to Get Him to Tell You He Loves You
You: “But do you love me? You never say you love me anymore.”
Him: “I’m here, aren’t I? Of course I love you. There, you satisfied now?”
No. You’re not. Duh.
You don’t want to hear “I love you” under duress. You want to hear it soulfully, longingly, preferably continuously.
Good luck.
Unless your guy happens to be extremely right-brained (like women are), or a died-in-the-wool womanizer (not a good choice), he’s unlikely to verbalize his feelings much after that glorious courtship&honeymoon phase women would like to live in forever.
Your guy tells you he loves you by being there, by doing things with you, by fixing the garbage disposal, by bringing home his share of the rent.
Pay attention to all those “I love you-s” and both you – and he – will be truly satisfied.
Him: “I’m here, aren’t I? Of course I love you. There, you satisfied now?”
No. You’re not. Duh.
You don’t want to hear “I love you” under duress. You want to hear it soulfully, longingly, preferably continuously.
Good luck.
Unless your guy happens to be extremely right-brained (like women are), or a died-in-the-wool womanizer (not a good choice), he’s unlikely to verbalize his feelings much after that glorious courtship&honeymoon phase women would like to live in forever.
Your guy tells you he loves you by being there, by doing things with you, by fixing the garbage disposal, by bringing home his share of the rent.
Pay attention to all those “I love you-s” and both you – and he – will be truly satisfied.
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