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There is an expression that “when you look at challenge differently, it starts looking different to you”. There are a few people lately that are amazing examples to me of “attitude in action” in dealing with their own life altering situations. I can think of three people in particular including myself that have in recent time’s endured serious life threatening illnesses. They went through personal and professional crisis that really can try a person’s faith and belief, but they persevere with grace and poise. Sadly my wife’ beloved grandmother passed away last month a symbol love, courage and compassion.

Some days we are just not ok or not good, but my friends showed me they shared that with their support team anyway. All around us there are people we know in crisis and change, from jobs to homes, to health, family and finances. Who do you know that has an “awesome attitude”? How can that make a BIG difference not only to them but to others?

For me, the past 35 years has been a relentless series of changes in all the areas of my life. By choosing to stay positive, keep evolving, growing and moving forward. There are many things that are NOT the same, but I still have love, health, family, friends, opportunity and fun in my life. As many of my friends know I am now passing on how I changed/turned my life around spiritual, physically, emotionally, mentally and in the area of wellness.

 

So what is Attitude?

= action (A doer not a gunna)

T = time management (Focused, organised)

T = tenacity (Persistence)

I = inspiration (Example, Creativeness & Motivation)

= temperance (Sobriety, clear headedness)

= unafraid (Fearless, Embracing Uncertainly)

= daring (Adventurous & Courageous)

= empathy (Sympathy, Understanding & Compassion)

What defines your attitude? Never underestimate how it can help someone you don’t know or haven’t met yet!

Research has clearly shown that how we think is intimately and inextricably connected to the way we act, the degree of joy we feel, and the way other people treat us. Our attitude can take us on a profound and positive mental, physical, and spiritual journey because our thoughts collectively create your attitude and your world. Our attitude can profoundly reshape our life.

Correctly applied, this simple fact will take you on a profound and positive mental journey encompassing all other areas. It will positively reshape your world. You will discover a new, more positive and energetic self. People will like you more and help you more often. You will find greater joy in helping others and you will find happiness at every turn; there are no age limits the only prerequisite is a desire to want to change, that’s it!

Everyone’s life is affected by thinking, acting, feeling, and physiology. Understanding how all your senses contribute to the way you think is a powerful tool. We have considerable control over the first ‘thinking’ yet so many people have no idea of their potential. To take action is something internal to us all. Again this is only expressed from time to time when motivation is high enough. The wonderful gift that you give yourself comes from harnessing the power of thinking & taking action they significantly increase our ability to govern our feelings; which in turn positively changes our physiology. This is illustrated superbly by a verse in the Old Testament the Book of Proverbs chapter 23 verse 7, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”

The source of much unhappiness is the failure to make positive choices. There are many NLP presuppositions like there is no such thing as failure only feedback. The symptoms of unhappiness are widely variable and can be disturbing and destructive. However, as we learn how to choose alternate behaviours that result in greater satisfaction, life becomes richer and more exciting. Understanding what your strategies are and why you “run” them are absolute for change. What meaning have you put on past experiences? Does it serve, support, nurture and challenge you? When you were six or seven year’s maybe it did? We create strategies for everything and a general reason is it protects us or keeps us safe from something.

Would it help you to be able to put a different meaning on an event and move on? Thousands of people around the world a learning simple models, strategies & techniques to assist them do just that. Reframing is just one tool we teach our clients & can be taught in seconds, mastering reframe can take a few hours or days depending on the person. Once you “get it” it changes lives.

The premise is simple and undeniable: our thoughts create our perception (our map), our perception defines the choices we believe possible, and our choices produce our life and our world. Everyone has their own map there is never two maps the same. Why? We all experience life differently putting our own meaning on the events that make up our lives. Have you ever had the experience of going to the movies a with group friends? Did you notice not everyone liked the movie? Yes you did and the reason is each person was looking at the movie from their own map. There is a presupposition that the map is not territory….. You may look at directions on a map to get to your local city, but it is not the city.

The choices we are all constantly making in the six key areas of life are central to our existence. If you want to improve your life through embracing uncertainty & making positive choices, contact us now: rennie@transformationforlife.com.au

 

Extraordinary Outcomes

We will work with you individually and possibly with your permission in a small group environment. You will receive carefully crafted information and techniques designed for you to provide fast and powerful results. You will be introduced to “Neuro-Linguistics Program” NLP. The language, verbal rhythms, and thought patterns (VKA) of the phrases we use have been proven time and time again to improve communication with others, give a deeper understand of self and allow a person to recreate the person they know they can be; allowing yourself permission to “shine” while discovering the magnificence within.

You will feel a more immediate, positive connection with some techniques than with others, but, if you allow yourself to bathe in the resonance of each new skill, you will feel yourself reorganizing into a more positive, vigorous, creative, and joyful person living life on your terms.

Each technique is powerful in its conciseness. Each is easy to apply. Each is flowing. Each is easy to remember. You will strengthen the natural rhythmic, positive thought vibrations in your heart.

A Thought about Self-Discipline: It's a matter of choice.

By merging your desire for a better life with a daily diet of positive thoughts, you will create an attitude consistent with success. Your attitude profoundly affects six key areas of your life:

  • Social: friends, neighbours, community, leisure time
  • Occupational: professional satisfaction, work environment, colleagues, time
  • Spiritual: internal connection with the ubiquitous and mysterious life force
  • Physical: appearance, fitness, comfort with, and use of, our body.
  • Intellectual: clear thinking, memory, ability to use data, mental alertness.
  • Emotional: joy, stability, family, connection with others, general outlook

As humans, it is our duty to proceed as if limits to our abilities do not exist because we are collaborators in creation. A key element of our responsibility is to uplift others and ourselves by being our true authentic selves building new relationship energy and creating an inner unity with others. A key to successful living is developing the latitude for understanding how our attitude toward others affects our ability to work and live with people around us.

Creating an Awesome Attitude:  Research has clearly shown that how we think is intimately and inextricably connected to the way we act, the degree of joy we feel, and the way other people treat us.

If you apply what you learn from this article it will take you on a profound and positive mental, physical, and spiritual journey. It will positively reshape your world. You will discover a new, more positive and energetic self. People will like you more and help you more often. You will find greater joy in helping others and you will find happiness at every turn. We encourage you to contact us NOW and make an appointment rennie@transformationforlife.com.au or contact us through our website http://transformationforlife.com.au

Rennie Devison: Owner|Mentor|Facilitator Transformation For LIFE

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