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Are You Ready for a Deeper Connection with Your Spouse?

Couples struggle the most when they have poor boundaries.  When they tell each other, whether to the other’s face or in their own mind, how to be, how to feel, how to behave, what to think, etc. They are imposing themselves on their partner not allowing their partner to be themselves.

This causes the other to be cautious, unavailable, reactive, rageful, passive aggressive, flaky, and all kinds of ways that are not conducive to intimacy, togetherness, respect, peace and love. How can they feel close, intimate, accepted, appreciated and loved if they are told not to be themselves? How can two people know each other and be intimate if they can’t show up in their relationship? The trick is to allow the other to Be themselves, to accept them as they are, as scary as that might be …

Contrary to popular belief, this is not what will hurt you in the relationship … What hurts is what partners do to protect themselves from being told not be themselves! Talk about ironic.

Take a risk, let your partner be themselves, and allow for intimacy to happen. The video below guides you in safely taking this plunge. 

 5 Tips for More Intimacy:

1) Create opportunities for connecting

2) Ensure emotional safety

3) Appropriately set up interactions

4) Share from the heart, share your “mind”

5) Purpose is to “get” and accept each other

These guarantee a deeper connection and more intimacy! Start applying these steps now. Complete the MetroRelationship (sm) Assignment below to assist you effortlessly make changes and immediately start experiencing the relationship you want! 

Make this Valentine Season a meaningful one. Create more connection and intimacy!

Happy Connecting!

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