CAN A MARRAIGE EVER RECOVER FROM BETRAYAL AND LIES?
My marriage is in big big big big problem!!! I feel so dettached from my husband and our marriage. I feels like i am wasting my time and energy in this marriage that not going to change. I haven't cheated on my husband and dont want to because that not what I want. I want to be loved byt my husband, appreciated by him, feel by him, and cared and adored by my husband. But I dont feel that. I t more out of life. I want to be happy and in a secured relationship. GOD is my only relationship I feel secure, loved, care, and protected by. And I know God want me to feel that in my marriage. I need some scriptures to help me through this troubling times for me. Also your advices if you want to but I am seeking GOD's face for guidance. Peace
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Comment by One Bored Employee on May 17, 2009 at 3:00pm
- You ar definately not alone. And I believe that a marriage CAN recover from betrayal and lies. This is what I am dealing with right now. My husband decided to come clean with me last night about some stuff he has been lying to me about. I knew the truth already but now that I know for sure - I wish he would not have told me......it is hard. I sat there calling out to God wondering how could I continue to pray for my husband and the lady that he was porno texting back and forth with? Why should I? What has he done for me or better yet F**** her - I should go and give her a piece of my mind. But the devil is a liar. These things that my husband and I are going through now - was there before we got married because they were issues that we had never dealt with. I aknowledge that - I accept that. The only thing we can do Jullian is pray for our husbands even if they dont even want to pray for themselves - like my hubby. I have no idea where my marriage is going but I am going to step back and let God be the driver. I have pushed him further and further out of my car - first he was side-seat driving, then I made him take a back seat and finally I just dropped him off somewhere between unemployment and depression. No longer - I am second. Email me if you need anything. I am currently involved in my churchs marriage ministry - I go by myself mind you - and we are studying Fireproof. It is hard being the only single at a marriage ministry meeting but.......I am determined to save my marriage. You should be too. Keep the faith girl - love to you!
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Comment by Dawn on May 16, 2009 at 9:53pm -
Read Mathew:
Also, I could have written your blog myself. It sounds just like mine, and I have read Mathew over and over. It is very hard, and I am ready to leave my marriage after 17 years. I am sorry I can't really help except to let you know that you are not alone.
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