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Will Traditional Marriage Survive?

Recent discussions indicate that there are some in American society who are not enamored by what has been considered “Traditional Marriage”.  Many couples are choosing alternative ways to validate their legal commitment.  Traditional or not, what’s most important about any union is the relationship.  That is why we produced The Marriage Contract 2nd…


Added by SAM on April 28, 2018 at 2:16pm — No Comments

What to do When Your Husband is Always Irritated with You

Do you feel like you can’t do anything right these days?

Is your husband becoming increasingly annoyed and irritated with you over insignificant or minor things?

If that’s true:

You feel like you are walking…


Added by Lisa Penn on August 14, 2017 at 2:19am — No Comments


It is presumed that people decide to get married because they love each other and want to spend their lives together.  In theory there would be no need to document such an arrangement except for the fact that the arrangement would not be recognized legally.  Thus marriage is a joint venture based in legal doctrine.   A license and documents signed by some “legal authority” are necessary before a marriage is “recognized” as valid.  Marriage then, is a contract designed to assign legal…


Added by SAM on October 10, 2015 at 6:30pm — No Comments


It is my opinion that many couples, today, don’t have the level of commitment that fortifies a marriage.  A marriage is an entity all into itself requiring nurturing and maintenance.  The two people in the relationship are the caregivers who are required to attend to those things that keep the relationship strong and healthy.  When there is no commitment to do this, then the relationship diminishes and it becomes easier, and maybe necessary to walk away.

Couples who are committed to…


Added by SAM on October 10, 2015 at 6:30pm — 1 Comment

What's love got to do with finances?

Marriage…what a simple yet complicated thing, right? What can seem extremely easy—loving someone—can also be extremely difficult, when you drill it down. When you love someone, you are no longer thinking about just yourself, or someone else, you're thinking about each other, as a…


Added by Seth Turner on December 11, 2014 at 2:30pm — 1 Comment



* I didn’t know he didn’t want to have children.

* I didn’t know she spent two years as an inmate in a correctional…


Added by SAM on June 17, 2014 at 8:00am — 1 Comment

The 7 Types of Extramarital Affairs (and Why You Should KNOW Them)


That’s how I felt when I found out my husband had an affair.

Sure, at first I wasn’t. The first feelings were rage, resentment, disgust, shock, confusion, numbness and helplessness.

But bottom line, when I looked deep down – I was…


Added by Lisa Penn on May 21, 2014 at 10:25am — No Comments

The 10 Most Important Questions to Ask a Cheating Husband

“O.k. Yes. I had an affair with her”.

My husband couldn’t look in my eyes when he finally admitted his 6-month affair with his co-worker.

I went completely silent for about 10 long seconds.

I wouldn’t exaggerate if I said that about 50 questions went through my…


Added by Lisa Penn on April 27, 2014 at 10:46am — No Comments

Not Sweet: Low Blood Sugar May Damage Marriage

New research out of The Ohio State University studied 107 married couples, using voodoo dolls to track how angry spouses felt toward each other for three weeks. Every night before bed and every morning the couples would have their blood glucose measured (i.e., blood sugar level). Those who poked the voodoo doll most to express their anger toward their spouse were those with the lowest glucose…


Added by hitched on April 17, 2014 at 12:30pm — No Comments

Married Tax Payers: File Jointly or Separately?

It's a new year with new tax rules. DailyFinance has put together a good write-up showing when it makes sense for couples to file jointly, lowering the amount their income will get taxed; and when to file separately because being married and filing jointly will…


Added by hitched on March 13, 2014 at 3:30pm — No Comments

Northwestern Offers the Ultimate Education Course: Marriage 101

The Atlantic wrote a long piece about the …


Added by hitched on February 21, 2014 at 2:54pm — No Comments

Infographic: The Science Behind a Happy Relationship

Marriage leads to a big happiness boost for 2 years and then the couples' happiness levels returns to its normal state prior to engagement after that. This and a slew interesting tidbits from a variety of studies has been compiled by Happify. For example, did you know that people in the most successful marriages spend at least 5 or more hours per week talking? Or that a happy marriage is worth an additional $105,000 a year in…


Added by hitched on February 18, 2014 at 2:30pm — No Comments

How Much Time Do You Have to Be in Your Relationship?

Time is a commodity in short supply depending on how you approach it ...
If you are strict about measuring time by the clock and calendar, there will never be enough hours in a day to create a lifetime of pleasure and purpose ... 
On the other hand, if you choose…

Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on December 9, 2013 at 10:30am — No Comments

Do You Know the Role of Thanks-giving?

We have a tendency to focus on the negatives, what doesn’t work, weaknesses and deficiencies, and how much our partner “sucks”. This is the kiss of death in life and relationships. This is a sure way of staying stuck in the status quo for what we focus on…


Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on November 15, 2013 at 7:30am — No Comments

Are You Giving Enough to Your Honey?

Are you generous in your relationship? Do you freely give from your heart with no strings attached, tit-for-tat, score keeping, need for acknowledgement, manipulation, or any other funny business?…


Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on November 8, 2013 at 4:00pm — No Comments

Military Marriages: Long, Frequent Deployments Hurt

A new study tracking the marital status of more than 460,000 U.S. service members between 1999 and 2008 found that the likelihood of divorce increased with each passing month that a spouse was away at war. The research was done by the RAND Corp. and published in Journal of Population Economics. Sebastian Negrusa, an economist who co-authored the study…


Added by hitched on October 10, 2013 at 1:30pm — No Comments

Marriage Counseling Didn't Work - Now What?

Despite the money, time and emotional effort you’ve invested in marriage counseling, it doesn’t seem to work. It feels like the last hope of saving your marriage is being shattered and you are stuck in a dead end street.

If marriage counseling doesn’t…


Added by Lisa Penn on January 30, 2013 at 10:30pm — No Comments

How to Transform Your Cold and Distant Spouse to the Sharing and Caring Man of Your Dreams

At some point, almost every woman in a long-term relationship finds herself looking for the adoring man who used to be her best friend. The sharing and caring man who really SAW the amazing woman he has right in front of him and treated her like a princess.

Do you remember this man? Do you wonder where did he go? And who is this cold, distant, uninterested and uncaring creature that took his place?

You may think I am…


Added by Lisa Penn on January 3, 2013 at 10:45pm — No Comments

My Husband Wants a Divorce – Is it too Late to Save My Marriage?

“I can’t believe this is happening to me”, my friend Rachel thought while sitting on the sofa with her husband John. Her heart was pounding and her face was turning pale as she heard him saying “I want a divorce.”

She was unable to speak. Her head was spinning and was too overwhelmed to cry. She just sat there listening to him telling her – “I just can’t go on like this anymore. Our marriage is over.”

He had already gone to work when she was able to speak…


Added by Lisa Penn on September 2, 2012 at 1:47am — No Comments

Help! I Think My Husband Hates Me

Not for a split second did you ever imagine that some day you will wake up next to a husband that hates you. YOUR husband? Who used to be so in love with you? That showered you with love and admiration? That used to be your best friend?

 Cut to a few years later, and it’s like you…


Added by Lisa Penn on September 2, 2012 at 1:30am — No Comments

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