How we do our days is how we ultimately do our life… Our life is but a collection of days… We can decide now what kind of life we want to have lived at the end of the day… When on our deathbed, what kind of highlight reel would we have to showcase? What kind of life do we want to have to show for our time on earth? What regrets…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on September 26, 2019 at 10:51am — No Comments
We are at after the initial hustle and bustle of getting to back2school/business, and the accompanying anxiety, stress and overwhelm. We are at a time where the new routine starts to feel like second nature and can get into the groove. Where the energy of the season is inspiring, and productivity comes with ease… Where we can more heartily play with…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on September 24, 2019 at 11:58am — No Comments
In the past few years, more and more people have been embarking on the Instagram train, and that’s for a very good reason. Instagram offers you a very creative way to explore new locations, connect with people and also de-stress from a long day at work. If you want to be happy and also even acquire some inspiration, Instagram is the right place to be.
Can creating an Instagram account motivate you?
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What routine tweaks are you implementing for more peaceful and joyful days? What systems are you putting in place to have more ease and flow in your home? What ritual can you integrate to launch the new season with spunk? What habit will you put in place to start the new quarter strong? How will you make this quarter special?
As you probably already…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on September 13, 2019 at 10:58am — No Comments
Obviously, we keep an eye on our overall wellness and progress throughout the year. We make adjustments and course corrections along the way. We recommit to habits and goals as we go. Some might have been forgotten and need a little dusting-off. In all, we stay the course to the best of our ability and keep shooting for the stars.
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This brings us to our current topic lineup. So far, we’ve covered aspects of Repeating Patterns (from Element3-Clarity & Dynamics), …Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on August 19, 2019 at 10:43am — No Comments
Last issue covered aspects of Communication (from Element2-Communication & Alignment in our Successful Couple Strategy™), the prior…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on August 11, 2019 at 4:00pm — No Comments
Last issue covered Boundaries… A hugely important concept that we address in Element1-Context & Mindset, in our Successful Couple Strategy™… Boundary bridges show up everywhere in our…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on August 5, 2019 at 2:06pm — No Comments
It’s funny, whenever I cover this topic with clients or in discussion with people, they all seem to believe that setting boundaries means being a jerk. They think they have to be…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on July 20, 2019 at 10:16am — No Comments
Are you enjoying more freedom and peace of mind this Summer? That is what Summer is all about… Freedom from the usual and the opportunity to Be… When was the last time you had a large chunk of time to do nothing? To just chill? To get in touch with your lightheartedness and ease? To play and frolic…
I’m afraid I usually hear from people how packed…Continue
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It is an obvious fact that some people are very emotional and others barely even notice how they feel… Emotions have to do with feeling in the body, and feelings have to do with…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on June 24, 2019 at 10:30am — No Comments
As we already started diving into in last week’s issue, Fathering is a very important concept in our life. From “fathering” comes discipline, the self-discipline we need to really succeed at our life.
How disciplined are you? Do you have systems or a mechanism in place to achieve your goals? Do you have goals? Do you have a strategy, a plan? We tackled…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on June 18, 2019 at 7:16am — No Comments
College is one of the funniest and most amazing periods in people’s lives. Never ending parties, new friends and endless entertaining activities make this time unforgettable and full of new experience.
However, you shouldn’t forget that surviving through college is one of the most challenging tasks. Essay writing, completing different case studies and passing the exams are very stressful hurdles each young adult…Continue
Sometimes we forget, or give up on, what we want to do… Sometimes we get side tracked or distracted and can’t seem to get traction… Sometimes we are afraid to follow are dreams… We believe we don’t have what it takes, and thus hold ourselves back. Can you remember a time in your life when any of these happened for…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on June 10, 2019 at 6:35am — No Comments
Life can be as hectic as can be this time of year with End-of-School and Summer Planning. These stressors create great strain for couples as they juggle the multitude of demands and additional expenses in their homes. There are a few times of year when things get really hairy, and this is one of them (the other main ones are Back-to-School and the…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on June 2, 2019 at 8:43am — No Comments
As we embark on this long holiday weekend kicking off the Summer, it is the perfect time to ponder upon what kind of Summer we’d like to have… By now most choices for academic and extracurricular activities for the next school year have also been completed, as we wrap up this year. By now enrollment to Summer camps, programs and the like have been…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on May 26, 2019 at 9:01am — No Comments
Something that is amazingly striking is how vulnerable we are in all aspects of our humanness. And, how hard we can be on ourselves (and with others!) to top it off! In the stories I hear through the work, and also in plain old conversations with people, I hear the constant criticism, lack mentality, negativity, focus on what’s “wrong”, and the like. Gosh, it…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on May 16, 2019 at 1:49pm — No Comments
First, if you are a Mom, sending you lots of love and appreciation for all you do and endure as a Mom… Second, if you are not a Mom, I’m sure there is a Mom in your life that you can Celebrate… And, third, we all have a Mother inside us to whatever extent. It’s part of the human condition to Care…
This is a perfect time to review how we are…Continue
Added by Emma K. Vigluicci, LMFT, CIT on May 11, 2019 at 10:23am — No Comments