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Noelle Nelson Can You Keep Those Little Things From Tearing You Apart?

You: “The bathroom light. He never turns it off when he’s done. Drives me crazy!” Your girlfriend: “Bathroom light? Try wet teabags on the kitchen counter. Yuck!” OK, so he isn’t Mr. Clean or Mr. Oops-I-gotta-turn-off-the-Light. Yes, it’s annoying. Yes, you’ve told him a zillion times, and yes you wish he’d get it already. So let’s see – when he (or you) leaves this mortal plane, what are you going to say: “He never turned off the bathroom light” or “Oh, how I miss the way he held me”?… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on November 19, 2009 at 9:12pm — No Comments

Greg Dudzinski, MS, LPC Domestic Violence Insights

October was Domestic Violence Awareness month. Though it is now November, I believe this still needs to be posted. I'm a man, a professional therapist, and yes I promote this crucial awareness. Domestic violence can be passive or aggressive in nature, as most would attest to the media coverage of the later. This sad and pathetic situation affects young and old alike. It traumatizes children, teens and the victim's family and friends. Often men are the perpetrators, though women also carry this r… Continue

Added by Greg Dudzinski, MS, LPC on November 19, 2009 at 4:54am — No Comments

Greg R. Thiel Relationship Coaching Corner

Dear Coach Greg: My partner and I have lived together for almost 2 years. We both work full time and contribute toward household expenses proportionate with our respective salaries. Life was easy the first year since co-habitation was new and exciting for both of us. I assumed that we would both contribute equally to household chores, but lately I feel more like a maid than an equal partner. Can you help us before we end an otherwise wonderful relationship? NOT The Maid Dear NOT: Congratulati… Continue

Added by Greg R. Thiel on November 18, 2009 at 2:11pm — No Comments

hitched Goverment Says Mammograms Not Necessary Until Age 50

Prior to their report, the recommended age had been 40. In the video from the AP, they still recommend that women discuss this decision with their personal physician. Let's hope that this doesn't push insurance companies to deny claims by women who are under the age of 50. What are your thoughts on this?
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Added by hitched on November 17, 2009 at 8:23pm — 1 Comment

Noelle Nelson How a SMILE Lights Up Your Love Life!

You: Straight, serious face. “That’s nice, dear.” Him: “Yeah, well OK. Whatever." Smile! Let your Sweetheart know just how sweet he is in your heart with a big ole SMILE!! You want enthusiasm from him, a little passion maybe, then smile. Your guy lives for that smile. He wants to know he pleases you, that he is still your Prince, your Knight in Shining Armor. Your smile tells him that bigtime. Be generous with your smiles. Smile whenever you’re happy, when you’re glad to see him, when… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on November 14, 2009 at 2:43pm — No Comments

hitched Divorce Risk Higher When Wife Gets Sick

According to findings in a new study, women who were told they had a serious illness were seven times as likely to become separated or divorced as men with similar health problems. The study collected data on 515 patients who received diagnoses of brain tumors or multiple scle… Continue

Added by hitched on November 12, 2009 at 6:09pm — No Comments

hitched High BPA Levels Linked to Male Sexual Problems

Bisphenol A or BPA, the controversial chemical found in thousands of everyday plastic products appears to cause erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems in men, according to a study funded by the federal government and published in the journal Human Reproduction. Researchers focused on 634 male workers at fo… Continue

Added by hitched on November 11, 2009 at 5:00pm — No Comments

Trina Read Men's Erogenous Zones

It’s important when contemplating a man’s erogenous zones, to think outside the “penis box”. Yes, of course, men want to experience maximum penis-love, however, when you branch out to other parts of his body it gives both of you the opportunity to experience a sense of erotica. Erotica being the holy grail of sizzling sex. Erogenous zones you probably already know: His Penis: The 1/3—2/3 rule. The first third (or head/ glans) of a man’s penis has the maximum amount of nerve endin… Continue

Added by Trina Read on November 11, 2009 at 8:16am — No Comments

hitched Dr. Scott Haltzman's Appearance on Rachael Ray

In case you missed it, Dr. Scott Haltzman appeared on the Rachael Ray show to discuss "Mad Men" marriages, which was defined as marriages where women take a homemaker roll while the husband goes off to work. The show included two couples who discussed how this type of arrangement worked for them. Dr.… Continue

Added by hitched on November 6, 2009 at 3:35pm — No Comments

hitched Would You Change Your Name After Marriage?

An article from Oprah.com (posted on CNN) asks the question of why women still change their name. It argues that it's a change of identity. Furthermore, it contends that name changes do… Continue

Added by hitched on November 5, 2009 at 4:43pm — 1 Comment

Noelle Nelson How to Fight With Your Spouse Like Friends, Not Lose Like Enemies

You: “We can’t move! I just got a promotion and a raise!” Him: “If we don’t move, I won’t have a job at all!” Stalemate. Nasty. Feels like a serious lose-lose. And right now, neither of you are budging. Both of you feel righteous: “Why should I be the one to give in here?” But a house divided against itself cannot stand. This marriage hasn’t a chance unless and until you are willing to sit down and focus on a solution, instead of focusing on who’s gonna win. There is always a solution… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on November 4, 2009 at 9:39pm — No Comments

hitched Pentagon Says U.S. Youth Unfit to Serve

We've read the reports about the obesity problems in the youths of America, but is it now a national security issue? The Pentagon just released a report saying 35% of the 31 million Americans aged 17 to 24 are unqualified because of physical and medical issues. The majority don't qualify because they are too fat or sick… Continue

Added by hitched on November 4, 2009 at 3:27pm — No Comments

hitched The Marriage Ref is Tom Papa

A few weeks ago, we ran an interview with Ellen Rakieten (click here) to discuss the new Jerry Seinfeld show called, "The Marriage Ref." At the time she couldn't disclose who would actually be the marriage ref, only to say that it's someone that Sei… Continue

Added by hitched on November 3, 2009 at 3:06pm — No Comments

hitched Daily Grind Good for Marriages

I know we've posted about the health benefits of coffee before, but we're not talking about that kind of grind. We're talking about doing chores, going to work, and so on. According to a new study out of Montclair State University, the more housework you do, the more often you're likely to have s… Continue

Added by hitched on November 2, 2009 at 9:47pm — No Comments

Noelle Nelson How to Get More of What You Want From Your Honey

You: “We’re always behind because you don’t make enough money!” Him: “I’m doing the best I can, whaddya want from me, blood?” If it meant more money, you might just say “yes.” Unfortunately, all you’d really get is more of what you’re getting right now – nothing. Good managers in the workplace know that you don’t get people to perform better and produce more, by yelling at them and browbeating them. You get more from people by encouraging what they’re already doing right and supportin… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on October 30, 2009 at 6:43pm — No Comments

hitched Men Married to Smart Women Live Longer

We've all heard that on average men die younger than women. If you're a guy and that scares you, the education level of your wife may give your life expectancy a boost. A study on 1.5 million people from experts at Stockholm University… Continue

Added by hitched on October 29, 2009 at 10:10am — No Comments

Noelle Nelson What Money Can’t Buy In a Marriage, Laughter Can

Finances are tight, you hardly go out anymore, so dinner at a restaurant with white tablecloths and candlelight is a BIG deal. You get this great coupon, finagle reservations, get yourself all dressed up (OK, so it’s last year’s fashion, or the year before, who cares), ready for a super night with your Honey. Only when you get to “El Swanky Restaurant” the hostess informs you in a frosty tone that your coupon expired – yesterday, and no, she won’t make an exception. “Next!” You’re mad! You ran… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on October 28, 2009 at 2:53pm — No Comments

Noelle Nelson How to Get Him to Tell You He Loves You

You: “But do you love me? You never say you love me anymore.” Him: “I’m here, aren’t I? Of course I love you. There, you satisfied now?” No. You’re not. Duh. You don’t want to hear “I love you” under duress. You want to hear it soulfully, longingly, preferably continuously. Good luck. Unless your guy happens to be extremely right-brained (like women are), or a died-in-the-wool womanizer (not a good choice), he’s unlikely to verbalize his feelings much after that glorious courtship&am… Continue

Added by Noelle Nelson on October 23, 2009 at 12:55pm — No Comments

hitched Only 4% of Marrieds Without Pension Have Enough for Retirement

A new report by Ernst & Young says that only 4% of middle-income married couples who don't have a pension and are nearing retirement are likely to have enough money to last their lifetime. Overall, nearly one-third of American households don't have any retirement savings, according to a McKi… Continue

Added by hitched on October 20, 2009 at 8:35pm — No Comments

hitched Interracial Couple Denied Marriage License

What year is this? Louisiana judge, Keith Bardwell, refused to issue a marriage license to Beth Humphrey (white), 30, and Terence McKay (black), 32, out of concern for any children the couple might have. "I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," s… Continue

Added by hitched on October 19, 2009 at 3:02pm — No Comments

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Episode 98: Get Your Marriage Out of the Fight Club

Dr. Noelle Nelson discusses how anger can inhibit your problem solving skills that keep you and your spouse fighting. Also, be sure to find out who won the Toad to Prince contest visit www.toadtoprince.com. For more go to www.hitchedmag.com

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