Tips to save marriage relationship, if your marriage is in crisis, don't show your partner that you're panicking. Showing desperation will make them feel suffocated and will push him or her even further away. Never beg or plead with your partner to get them to return. You'll then feel humiliated when they don't respond to your pleas and feel your self esteem drop. If they want space, give them space. Spend time doing those things that make you feel strong and good about yourself. If your partner is aggressive towards you, do not lash out in return. Be calm and in control and if you portray this attitude, you will begin to feel this attitude. Finally and most importantly, you have to realize that you have a choice. Either reacts to the situation you're in or change your behavior! Don't focus on trying to change your partner's behavior but focus on changing yours.