"Sneak the viagra!!! Lol. But really then. Suprise him with other women. Suggest a yhreesome. Give him head in the morning. Its also how u make him feel. Talk dirty. Act like a slut in bed. Works for my husband. I wasn't into but he was then…"
"I know it is a hackneyed answer, but talk. No one else's fantasies can be yours (although they might inspire fantasies of your own) - but find space where you can chat, and then discover what each other's desires are and try acting some of…"
"I really wish no one ever had this problem!! It has now been 47 days since we last had sex ( if that is really what you could call what that was) and I'm tired!!! Tired of not feeling wanted or needed. Tired of being lonely. I love my husband…"
"Funny as a man I have the opposite problem and have for a long time. I am attractive & sexually active. Although my wife has gotten better, it still seems like I have to almost force her to have sex. Not very fulfilling when you feel like you…"
"So what do we do about all this erectile dysfunction? Sex is a natural part of life and other than when I had lost my drive after I had children, my husband and I have always had sex. We love each other's bodies. Now he has put on a lot of…"
"Too much porn is certainly affecting my marriage! My husband seems obsessed with online porn. He gets home before I do and I know (yes, I know) that he visits several sites before I get home and then some more before going to bed. It never used to…"
"I am undergoing the same thing right now and I am so thankful to see this post that I can relate to. My husband and I are both 40 and lately he either can't hold an erection or have an erection. This year, though, after 10 years of marriage, we…"
I have a husband who says that this is how all marriages are, we just aren't talking about it. He asks me not to take it personally. He says there is no one else. We have been to therapy where he told our couples therapist that there…"
"I'm also new here and thank you on the compliment. Porn can be a problem for some. To some it's offensive, and for others it's alright but it depends on the person and there should always be respect for your mate when it comes to such…"
"Does he or has he started taking blood pressure medicine? That will certainly make him lose his drive. I'm on it and it effects me that way. I got that way with my husband several years ago and I felt so bad because I just didn't want to…"
"I probably should have stated that we are not that old my husband is only 41 and I am only 37, we should be having great sex at this time in our lives!!!. I will try the book you suggested it is actually one I have not read yet. Thanks"