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Not necessarily. In general women have a lower sex drive than men. Yes, there are exceptions.
We don't take enough time? I take between 1 and 3 hours. No exaggeration. We've even done over 4 hours. She orgasms more often during sex than I do. Yet...
Sounds like you have the feminist talking points all memorized. Read "The Female Brain" by Dr. Louann Brizendine. It will give you some actual facts to work with instead of fantasized rhetoric.
Oh, there's always a reason: stress on the job, not feeeeeling well, too much on her mind, the kids, you said something she didn't like three weeks ago, hormonal changes, still grieving after 10 years, not feeling as attractive as she once did, no...
In general (yes it is a generalization) men do need more sex than women. Our brain is wired for that. Read "The Female Brain" by Dr.Louann Brizendine. She's a psychiatrist with extensive experience and it's a pretty easy read. She's pretty straigh...
It's the man's fault you can't reach an orgasm? Wow. Is it your invariably your fault when he has sex with another woman? Does anyone actually have any personal responsibility?
Admittedly the initiator of this thread didn't articulate himself ver...
What are you going to do if she decides the person she has the "affair" with is more desirable than you and wants to leave you? What if she brings home Herpes or one of the other 40 some STDs? Anytime you stray from a committed monogamous relation...
But then your sex drive seems to be fine. What about those of us whose wife is losing her sex drive, for example due to hormonal changes? For those women, it's not just kissing them. They are not interested, and in many cases won't bother to try.
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There are medical treatments and they're easy. A testosterone gel is probably the best. Causes are sometimes undetermined. It can be other problems in the endocrine system, or even just aging. It requires a doctors visit and some tests.
Has he had his testosterone level checked? It's easy to fix. I guess it's kind of common in men. Seems like it would be worth a shot to keep you happy!
I am truly sorry to hear that. I am not sure what percentage of sex problems are due to the guy being self centered. But I fear it is the majority of them. Until he's motivated to change, he won't. Throwing a book at him isn't likely to work.
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Ah, if a woman isn't interested, it MUST be the man's fault. Why not society's fault? Or the government's fault? Grow up and learn a little. Personally, I spend between an hour and 3 hours getting my wife to a climax. I work hard on it every time....
You said, "there really is very little in the sexual experience for a woman to get excited about". Really? Then why do I spend between 1 and 3 hours making sure I give her as much pleasure as possible and helping her reach an orgasm pretty much ev...
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