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How to stop the same arguement after it going on for years
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Mi Apr 4.
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I hear what you are telling me. I appreciate the outside view. I come with a set of views of the world and the situations in it,and so does he.I often find my self centered in them and unable to emerge to accept others views. I'm currently working...
I think if you look up Bibi profile you may understand more of her differences. I've thought in the past that these responses are 'urge' based. It's a shame when we have to make assumptions and decisions from fear and ignorance,mind you ignorance ...
There simply must be a mature acceptance that you two do not see eye-to-eye on a particular issue - and move on. Its okay, really, that you do not agree on everything. That's the beauty of marriage - that you two are not clones of each other but e...
In my relationship it was the hardest thing being the first to really be giving and start a not accusatory dialoge. I wanted to let him have it for coming up short on taking care of my feelings. I wanted to yell at him for not realising how much h...
It all depends on what the argument is about. If it is something small like he left the toilet seat up then you could all work through it. If its about a past relationship or an affair I don't think that can be fixed. I am not married but have bee...
I have the same problem. I guess we havent really resolved what we keep arguing about.
I don't agree. It's not what men are seeing or not seeing in you,it's what you believe about yourself. We are all imperfect,but we all are imperfect,understand? No one guy has and is everything and no one woman is either. We must accept ourselves ...
When I choose to get divorced I was under the same finance rock you are looking at. In the end the struggle it takes to make end meet is nothing compaired to the emotional and mental abuse. You can stay untill thing are better or you can leave and...
Jenniffer, I know this sounds crazy but could it be he hasn't adjusted to the shift in your family? You've just had a big change in your house hold maybe he is having a hard time relateing to that? Imagen if he did and was afraid to talk to you ab...
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- At 10:52am on April 4, 2009,
Mrs. Childress said…
- Mi, look forward to getting to know you better - even across the miles. Last time I was in Illinois was at my son's boot camp graduation (Great Lakes) in mid-November 2005. I stopped off at a shopping center in Schaumburg right off the highway. Very beautiful and friendly people. if it hadn't been so dog-gone cold (it was in the single digits, too cold for this California girl (hee hee hee), I would have ventured more around the city. Nonetheless, I hold nice and dear memories of the city. Chat with you soon! Sylvia
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- It changes every day....and it doesn't always work.
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- I'm trying to find ways to bridge the understanding gape between me and my fiance. I'm a creature of raging emotion and he.......hates that. So I continue my search.
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