"Like most of us, I feel that I could say YES to all of these. I also know that if Karen was looking over my shoulder she would immediately leap in with "well why don't you do them then". In truth I think it is one thing to say that…"
"I thought I was the only one asking myself this question. To me, making love to my wife is as close and intimate as we can get, and the idea of "allowing" someone else to be in that special place seems abhorent. Maybe I am old fashioned,…"
"Many thanks for this - it made me smile as I remembered a particular holiday in a hotel in Paris when we hadn't been married all that long. Oh the happy sound of people banging on the walls as we made WAY too much noise. So Yes, hotel sex is…"
"Part of being a Christian couple is wanting each other to be where God want's you to be, and therefore sometimes God may want you to be on different pages so he can use you in different ways - this does not mean that you will not come together…"
"I know it is a hackneyed answer, but talk. No one else's fantasies can be yours (although they might inspire fantasies of your own) - but find space where you can chat, and then discover what each other's desires are and try acting some of…"