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Why is emotional intimacy such a big deal for men?

Started Aug 20, 2011 0 Replies

It would be interesting to get different opinions on this ticklish issue. We women already know that sharing and divulging our deepest feelings is pretty easy. Yet most of us live with partners who…Continue

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Melissa Wise liked Denise J Charles's blog post When A Woman Is A Vulture and Your Man The Prey
Jan 11, 2013
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

A Woman’s Sex through the Ages: 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s . . .and Beyond

           There is so much information out there written for us women about sex and our responses to it (present company included). To some degree when we’re addressed as women, we’re all lumped together in one fell swoop. We’re told about our G spots, our orgasmic potential, our vaginas, our ability to “ejaculate”,…See More
Nov 28, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

The Porn Trap

There is so much about today’s lifestyle that is bringing significant changes to our relationships. We are admittedly a whole lot busier and spend far more time on the road. We do little face-to-face communication and possess a slew of technological gizmos and gadgets. We are also avid consumers of entertainment and have grown accustomed to hyper-stimulation. In other words, we get bored easily and seem to need a constant stream of new excitement. Is it any surprise then that our new mode of…See More
Oct 29, 2011
Denise J Charles and Husband Fix are now friends
Oct 29, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

Why Guy-Vulnerability is Soooooo Sexy

There is a deeply embedded idea floating around in relationship circles, that men are emotional klutzes when it comes to the expression of deep feeling. And this idea is not without some merit. As women, we’ve witnessed men scratch themselves in public, and give huge pats on the back or behind (depending on the culture) when affirming each other in some sport. Men have screamed, laughed and even cried together at the outcome of some game or the other. Obviously, to men, there seems to be some…See More
Sep 18, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

What a Man Wants

I know that some of you, especially males, are going to think that it’s decidedly presumptuous of me to even think that I know what a man wants. But I’m no Johnny or Jane come lately. Having been married to the same man for over twenty-five years and the fact that I live in a house with four males, gives me the distinct advantage…See More
Sep 5, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a discussion

Why is emotional intimacy such a big deal for men?

It would be interesting to get different opinions on this ticklish issue. We women already know that sharing and divulging our deepest feelings is pretty easy. Yet most of us live with partners who are significantly challenged in this area. How do we navigate this difficulty? How does it impact on our marriage relationship? What can we do about it?
Aug 20, 2011
Denise J Charles liked Denise J Charles's blog post When Your Man Makes Love Like A Boy
Aug 19, 2011
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When Your Man Makes Love Like A Boy

I know this article will probably tick off some men. Sorry guys. But I also know that some women will immediately connect with the imagery. When it comes to sex, some men are definitely men and unfortunately other men seem destined to remain boys. What exactly do I mean? Not being a man myself of course I can only make this…See More
Aug 19, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

Sex with a Sexual Mis-Match?

I’ve been reading “Who Should You Have Sex With” by Dr. Mark Thompson and have not been terribly surprised by his very masculine take on sexual chemistry. After all, men tend to be very logical and precise in their view of reality. He believes that where sex is concerned, like should always match like. This view mirrors the notion espoused today, that great sex, the chandelier-swinging variety, occurs best in a context where a husband and wife are on the same sexual page. …See More
Aug 9, 2011
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Aug 2, 2011
Denise J Charles liked Denise J Charles's blog post The Score: What Type of Lover Are You?
Aug 1, 2011
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The Score: What Type of Lover Are You?

If you were to be rated by your partner as a lover on a scale of 1 to 10, what would you score? For those of you who are wondering why we would want to go about the business of being rated as lovers, it is important to note that everything in life has a value. We value things as fickle as our cars, our clothes, shoes…See More
Aug 1, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

What Does Everyone Really Want?

Love sex? Hate sex? Couldn’t care less about sex? Need to learn more? Perhaps already screaming the house down? Well maybe my latest book  is just what you need. Check out this promotional video on “You Tube”, shot on location in beautiful Barbados. And please; share with your friends.…See More
Jul 24, 2011
Denise J Charles posted a blog post

When Your Prince is Really a Frog

Let me start with a huge apology. I’m sincerely sorry guys for understatedly calling you frogs. While I harbour no underlying resentment for men, I absolutely abhor frogs. The creatures are ugly, slimy and cold but trust me; there is some science to my comparison that has nothing to do with physical resemblance.…See More
Jul 16, 2011
Denise J Charles replied to marysol184's discussion Marriage in Shams
"Sorry to hear about your pain but things cannot return to "normal" at this time. Based on the little you have shared, it seems that your husband has had a serious issue with setting appropriate boundaries between him and another woman. The…"
Jul 6, 2011

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Relationship Status:
Married
How long have you been married?
20+ Years
How many kids do you have?
3
What's your best marriage advice?
Understand that marriage is not just an expendable commodity which you can get rid of like an old, worn pair of shoes. It requires nurturing, pruning and watering just as you would a plant. There are no automatic guarantees but it is what you make it. There will be times when separation or divorce seems like the only legitimate answer but this should be an absolute LAST RESORT. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to the idea of commitment for the long haul and most importantly live the value that you would like to see your partner exemplify the most.
About Me:
Denise J Charles easily describes herself as the quintessential Renaissance woman with her hands in many pies. She is a wife and mother of three sons, an educator who has taught from High School to University, a performance poet, Artistic Director, published author, blogger, counselor and relationship coach. She is a qualified “trainer of trainers” and also holds a Master’s Degree in Education with an emphasis in applied Psychology. She is also Executive Director of "Better Blends Relationship Institute"; http://betterblends.webs.com
You can find Denise’s thoughts on sex and sexuality on her blog at http://redredapples.wordpress.com
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A Woman’s Sex through the Ages: 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s . . .and Beyond

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There is so much information out there written for us women about sex and our responses to it (present company included). To some degree when we’re addressed as women, we’re all lumped together in…

Continue

The Porn Trap

Posted on October 29, 2011 at 8:39pm 1 Comment

There is so much about today’s lifestyle that is bringing significant changes to our relationships. We are admittedly a whole lot busier and spend far more time on the road. We do little face-to-face communication and possess a slew of technological gizmos and gadgets. We are also avid consumers of entertainment and have grown accustomed to hyper-stimulation. In other words, we get bored easily and seem to need a constant stream of new excitement. Is it any surprise then that our new mode of…

Continue

Why Guy-Vulnerability is Soooooo Sexy

Posted on September 18, 2011 at 10:01pm 0 Comments

There is a deeply embedded idea floating around in relationship circles, that men are emotional klutzes when it comes to the expression of deep feeling. And this idea is not without some merit. As women, we’ve witnessed men scratch themselves in public, and give huge pats on the back or behind (depending on the culture) when affirming each other in some sport. Men have screamed, laughed and even cried together at the outcome of some game or the other. Obviously, to men, there seems to be…

Continue

What a Man Wants

Posted on September 5, 2011 at 9:01pm 0 Comments

I know that some of you, especially males, are going to think that it’s decidedly presumptuous of me to even think that I know what a man wants. But I’m no Johnny or Jane come lately. Having been married to the same man for over twenty-five years and the fact that I live in a house with four males, gives me…

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