Nothing in live just happens. Yes when we were all younger, or should I say when I was younger, physical health and strength was a blessing. But to get stronger or to say in good shape I have had to put myself on an exercise routine. It is true for everything. If I speak French and then don't use the language for a period of time, I loose it.
So my question is this; why don't we think we will loose our love for each other if that love is not exercised every day? Why do we understand that even our cars need to be maintained but we don't maintain the bonds within our relationships?