After seven years together, two of them married, my husband recently admitted (while drunk) that he wants to have a child together.
I, on the other hand, have never really wanted children. It's a long story, but let's just say that I know how much work and sacrifice and expense that it takes to raise a child well, and not only am I not really interested, but I'm not sure I'm up to it.
We discussed this before we got married, and I have always make it perfectly clear that motherhood did not interest me. We made life and educational choices and plans based on that fact. I feel betrayed, in a sense - while I know he means it as a compliment, I feel like the very foundation on which we related and got married just shifted. What now?
Anybody else been through this?