My wife and I are going over the budget this weekend. We're usually pretty good about sticking to one. We typically purchase one big gift and a few small gifts for each other. We have a lot of extended family that we buy gifts for, but because there are so many we have to be very diligent about watching our money because we both love to give gifts and we have to reign in our enthusiasm. One of these days we'll be able to spoil everyone we know!