How do you let your inner sex kitten come out???
I've been married for three years now and I still find it hard to let go and have crazy sex. My conscious is often my worst enemy. I get these feelings of disgust and I have no idea why. Who can help???
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Permalink Reply by Brandie Prine on -
I've been married going on 19 years and it took me 10 years before I was really comfortable. I did find that once I let myself go the sex was amazing. I promise you. I still don't like to do with with a lit up room, dimmed lights are best but I think when we have children we just aren't as comfortable with our bodies.
You shouldn't feel disgusted or dirty when having sex with your partner. That is something between the two of you that should be amazing. Maybe you should go into it lightly until you get more comfortable with it. I had a hard time with orgasms like most women so I actually went to a toy store and that is where it started with me. Some women aren't comfortable with that. All I can say is that its all good now. For me, and this is my own opionion, when my husband and I had sex all those years it was good but now that I will do anything for him and to him he goes crazy and I love knowing that I can make him feel that way. It's almost like I'm competing against myself always trying to make him have a better orgasm.
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Permalink Reply by Shanae Fox on -
Thats sounds good. We always argue about that and I'm sick of it. I will try what you said. Maybe it will work for me!!!
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Permalink Reply by Brandie Prine on
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My husband and I didn't have sex until we were married so I didn't realize he had so much of a sex drive and OMG, it never went away and he is now 40. Learn to give in little by little but not too much because you will be overwhelmed and feel bad about it later because you are trying different things you aren't use to. If it is something just way out there and you feel weird about the whole thing, don't because mine asked me to do a couple of things that I still refuse to do to this day and I'm pretty laid back. If you haven't tried the toys or creams, I promise they will help. Gosh, I hate to be too explicit on here but they have creams with tingling in them that will help you so much if you need help in that area
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