Sex

Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Straight Man on August 20, 2009 at 1:12am

There are medical treatments and they're easy. A testosterone gel is probably the best. Causes are sometimes undetermined. It can be other problems in the endocrine system, or even just aging. It requires a doctors visit and some tests.

▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kayla Renee Bula on August 17, 2009 at 1:50pm

Well...dont talk just do! If my husband starts kissing on me and turning me on, why would i tell him no? every woman wants love and to be the center of attention. She also wants her husband to be faithful to her. If you give him what he needs, he'll give you what you need. Its a give and take relationship. You have to give a little to get a little. I've noticed when my husband is sexually satisfied I get more loving attention than when I dont satisfy him. Yes, i tell him no when I'm already asleep...but if you tell him no, why should he say yes baby, i will do your laundry, clean your house, and do everything you ask? lol. You got to train them....sex is like the treat you give a dog when it sits. Reward him and you will be rewarded!

▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Straight Man on August 20, 2009 at 1:15am

But then your sex drive seems to be fine. What about those of us whose wife is losing her sex drive, for example due to hormonal changes? For those women, it's not just kissing them. They are not interested, and in many cases won't bother to try.

There are many causes of a sexless marriage. Sometimes it's due to frustration. Sometimes stress. Sometimes just too much fighting and not feeling like the other person cares at all.

However you have the right approach. Your husband needs sex to feel loved (except in the abnormal cases such as medical problems, latent homosexuality, etc.) and without it he's going to pull back from you. That's the way his brain is wired.

▶ Reply to This

• First
• Previous
• Next
• Last