My wife and I have a secret date once a month--where one plans it but doesn't tell the other what we're doing. In addition to that, I'd say on average we go out at least once a week. Sometimes to see a movie, often to have dinner, or sometimes it's just to get out of the house and spend time together.
I think we're going to start doing the "walk" thing too. It's great to get out of the house and talk especially before the winter starts to kick in-- then it's back to Scrabble and DVD's
Permalink Reply by Kasi on November 17, 2008 at 12:44pm
I'm not sure I'd call it dates, but we do go out of the house together about once a week. It might just be to an inexpensive dinner, or it might be to go explore a part of town we've never checked out before (we're new to the area) and window shopping. Lately we work out together on the weekend, or take a walk, because he has a hard time juggling work demands, time with me, and fitness - so we combine the latter two.
Permalink Reply by Kasi on November 17, 2008 at 5:10pm
We knew we were 'really married' when we found the highlight of our time out the other week was discovering a new grocery store that we liked, that carried some things I'd been looking unsuccessfully for. Luckily they had a Starbucks, so we could walk through sipping a drink!
My husband and I go out at least once a week, on the weekend. During the work week everything seems so rush rush, I'm constantly watching the clock because I know we have to be in bed early to start the cycle all over again so we pretty much have a routine those days. But after a long week at work it is nice to unwind on the weekend with some outing! I definitely think it keeps the spark alive and us feeling the joy of each others companionship just like we did when we were dating and not worrying about a mortgage and all the other stresses of life. I don't have children yet, but I hope that when we do we can still preserve this time alone together ;)
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